Looking for a dark-skinned gentleman who knows how to treat a lady - Johannesburg

My preference is a dark-skinned, slim/fit, well-groomed man who is confident, respectful and knows how to take charge. I want someone who enjoys being a gentleman and is capable of creating a proper boyfriend experience rather than just arranging a quick meetup.
I'm feminine, dark-skinned and present as a lady. I'm a transgender ladyboy/cross-dresser, and depending on the platform I may be categorised as female, femme, transgender, ladyboy, cross-dresser or drag. The category doesn't really matter to me — I know I look like a girl, and that's the energy I bring.
What I really want is someone who can take care of the planning from beginning to end. Book the place, arrange or request transport, pick me up when necessary, host if appropriate, and sort out food and drinks. I want a man who can take initiative and make the experience happen without me having to organise everything.
We can start with good conversation, drinks, food, games, laughter and just getting comfortable around each other. The connection comes first. Once we're relaxed and the chemistry is right, we can enjoy some adult fun and let the intimate side naturally develop.
I like a man who can make me feel safe and comfortable enough to let my guard down, take the lead and enjoy a more dominant dynamic. I'm not chasing a serious relationship — I'm looking for friendship, companionship, chemistry and a genuinely enjoyable experience. If we get along really well, I'm definitely open to becoming regulars.
I'm in the East of Johannesburg, around Eastgate, Greenstone, Edenvale, OR Tambo and Kempton Park. If you're elsewhere, that's fine too, as long as you're genuinely willing to travel and make the necessary arrangements.
Please only contact me if you're serious and can actually meet what I'm asking for. I'm not interested in endless back-and-forth, negotiations or people who aren't ready to make plans.
If you're the type of gentleman who takes initiative, knows how to treat a feminine lady and wants to create a great experience together, let's talk