Dark, sexy blackberry queen looking for her knight in shining armor - Johannesburg

Feminine, dark-skinned transgender ladyboy/cross-dresser. I basically look like a girl, so depending on the site/category, I may be listed as female, femme, transgender, ladyboy, cross-dresser or drag. The label isn't a big deal to me — I'm simply a feminine lady looking for the right gentleman.
I'm looking for a dark-skinned, slim/fit, well-groomed man who knows how to treat a lady and can give me a proper boyfriend experience.
I want a gentleman who can take the lead and plan everything — book the place, host if appropriate, arrange/request transport, pick me up when needed, organise food and drinks, and actually put thought into the experience. I don't want to be the one planning everything or going back and forth about arrangements.
Let's meet, talk, laugh, have drinks, eat, play games, relax and enjoy each other's company. Once we're comfortable and the chemistry is there, we can have some adult fun and let things naturally become intimate. I like a man who can make me feel safe, relaxed and comfortable enough to let go and be submissive while he confidently takes the lead.
I'm not looking for a traditional relationship. I'm looking for a great connection, good friendship, companionship, chemistry and someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with. If we really click, I'm open to making it a regular thing.
I'm based in the East of Johannesburg — Eastgate, Greenstone, Edenvale, OR Tambo and Kempton Park. I'm open to someone from elsewhere, provided you're genuinely willing to travel and make the arrangements happen.
Please don't message me if you already know you can't meet these expectations. I'm not looking for endless negotiations or people who are just curious.
If you're serious, take the lead, make the arrangements, make me comfortable, and let's have a great time together.