Sassy mistress looking for male sub. Sissies welcome - Johannesburg

I am not your average Dom and you’ll come to find that in time, but I am in search of something fairly traditional in a d/s relationship. However, I am very open to many types of dynamics as my interests and desires vary greatly. As the title suggests, I am looking for a loyal sub. One with an open mind and is enthusiastic in his submission. I also need someone mentally mature.

You and I have a secret. To the outside world, we're just like any other couple, well, perhaps more vibrant. "They" see us as being connected, in sync, happy, and fulfilled. They see us bantering and laughing, and envy our warmth and our wit. They think it must be because we understand and respect each other and because we have a lot in common.

But what they don't see is what they will never know. They don't know where the necklace you're wearing extends to and where it's attached. They don't know what else is on, or in, your body as a constant reminder of your service to me, keeping you aware and on edge, anticipating what awaits us in our private moments.

You and I share a private trust. You know I am there to protect, teach, and guide you. You know I have your best interests at heart. You know I won't humiliate or harm you. We bring out the best in each other, the Dom and sub we are meant to be.

Trust
If trust is destroyed, so goes the relationship. Mistress doesn’t have the tolerance or time to try and determine if the slave is lying.

Inexcusable
Lying will not be tolerated. Mistresses door to communication will be open. This Mistress will not use silence or non-communication as a form of punishment. Mistress will not tolerate silence from a slave/sub just because the slave/sub is scared or is trying to get out of a task.

Control
Mistress will take as much control as a slave/sub is willing to concede.

Dislikes:
Feces/Urine, Permanent Scaring, Illegal, Blood, Underage, Extreme Pain

Inexcusable/Not Tolerated
Non-Communication, Not-Replying, Lying, Prejudice, intolerance, Drug addicts, Narcissists

If a slave/sub is only looking for a Mistress have online sessions ….then say so! If the slave/sub is looking for “long term” understand that “long term” means more than a couple of days. If a slave/sub answers this Mistresses ad at a very minimum know what it is the slave is looking for, how much time the slave is willing/able to put into serving and have the ability to convey this to the slaves potential Mistress.

I am kind, firm but fair and looking for a tightly bonded relationship with intense connection built on trust, communication, respect, care and love. I will cherish and nurture and treasure and protect you. You will adore and worship and obey and serve me . Our relationship will be powerfully rewarding for us and mutually supportive and fulfilling in different ways. The relationship is all and the synergy will energise us both. You will be listened to like never before. I will communicate the expectations of you directly and clearly. I will take all the decisions for us carefully after consulting with you as my second in command. I am an educated professional and I am psychologically sophisticated. You must be open minded, reflective and have a giggle.
You should understand or be willing to learn about the many paradoxes of domination and submission and be able to see beyond the face value. If you are an anxious and often needy sub you are very welcome to contact me. You must be eager to please and serve me.
I want a man who doesn't NEED to be owned, but WANTS to be owned.
I can be a controlling and demanding Dom with high expectations and a low tolerance for disobedience.

I can also be sweet, caring, and even vulnerable, though it takes some time to see that side of me.

I need an intellectual connection as much as an emotional one. Send me an answer to the below, along WITH YOUR WHATSAPP NUMBER. It’s simple but trips up people who are not careful.

Roy and Darrell are chatting. Roy points across the street and says to Darrell, “Brothers and sisters, I have none, but that man’s father is my father’s son.”

Who is Roy pointing at?

Sissies are welcome.