Looking for a unique/special companion - Johannesburg

NO SEX WORKERS PLEASE

Me: BWM, 52, 96kg, 1.78m, white, intelligent, kind, interesting, masculine, financially independent, savvy, healthy, nice build, widower, non-smoker, light drinker and sober. Located on the west of Joburg.

You: Man of colour (Indian, Black, Coloured/Mixed race), pref 40+ (please be emotionally mature), pref 100kg+, my height or taller, masculine, intelligent, financial independent, kind, generous, muscular or strong build i.e. you must gym regularly (you don't have to be ripped as a little extra weight never hurt anyone), NOT in a gay relationship, NON-smoker (important!) and either a non-drinker or a light drinker, not an addict of any sort (drugs, gambling, sex, alcohol, etc). If you are located close to me in JHB that would be great as we won’t have to travel too far, but at least be in the greater JHB metropolitan area. Oh yes, hairy and bearded is a plus.

My story: Looking for someone who I can spend time with, get to know as a real friend, enjoy physical and emotional intimacy with (sex is not required), have as a special companion, go away for holidays with, cuddle with and be affectionate with, and get the same in return. Emotional availability is critically important as I want a real connection, be able to chat and message one another as friends, and express feelings without it being weird/uncomfortable. If you battle to connect emotionally or intimately with others, then we won’t work.
I am confidently independent; but would love to have someone who is my special someone and that feels the same way about me. I am committed to making this a definite thing…so you should be too. I have no intention of stringing someone along; please don’t view this as just a hook-up opportunity or a free ticket to financial security. I am wise and emotionally mature, and I will see through all BS. My prerequisites are non-negotiable, but I am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt. On dating sites everyone lies so I am hoping this will work. Lastly, no sex workers, chancers or gold diggers…I’ve been there and done that; frankly it’s just not for me!

If you are serious about this please message me your email, we can swap pics and get a conversation going. If we want to take it further we can exchange numbers. Thanks