Black Couple Seeking a lady/couple for mutual fun - Johannesburg

We are boyfriend and girlfriend. We are in a long-term relationship. We are not staying together. She drinks. He does not drink. He is the gym guy and a social runner. We are looking to meet with a couple where we can build a solid friendship, get to know each other. If there is chemistry, we can get physical. She is pickier than me when it comes to the suitable man in the couple. She must find him attractive. I would expect the same from the lady of the couple she would expect to be attracted to me. That can be tricky when it comes to this thing, as I may be attracted to the lady and her not attracted to the guy, or she might be attracted to the guy and the lady of the guy not attracted to me. As disappointing as it is, we understand. We understand this delicate dynamic. I am also a fair guy, if it happens, she likes the couple, and the lady of the couple does not feel me, I do not mind watching her play with the couple, we are not the tit for tat kind of a couple, like if you fuck my woman, I must fuck yours. I value her mutual fun as much as mine. She is straight, but if she had a bit of wine, she does not mind kissing another lady. We are not intending to move from couple to couple, but in the search for thee couple, this can be expected to happen. We are both medium built. We are looking for a real couple not play partners. We are also activity looking for a lady to be our girlfriend. We are open to a video call or a meet somewhere. We are staying in the north of JHB.